How to approach women thread

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DO this first then say "hello"

 
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Also, Men’s Influencer Courtney Ryan has another great video on this topic. Her advice is usually simple, straight to the point and effective

This is what she says.


1 Do not approach and ask for number right away. Try to make conversation flow naturally like you know her. If things seem cool give her your number so you can chat later if she is interested

2 No sex talk. Even if she is wearing yoga pants or tight jeans
compliment her on something non sexual

3 Be confident in a friendly way

4 If it becomes apparent she is not feeling it move on before you reaffirm her feelings

In my experiences, if she is not feeling it that she will make obvious. If she is feeling it and makes it obvious than that is a green light and you got lucky.

The inbetween is the hard one, she is friendly but not being obvious in her interest that may be because she is not interested but she could be interested but reserved, not really sure or sure about your interest
 
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Well, based on some documentaries I've seen, seems guys are particularly successful picking up women by delivering pizza and making sexy innuendos about sausage, or being a clothes dryer repair man helping women who get stuck.
 
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Well tattoos was or is or had been related to Army people for ID purpose.
Gangs.
And others for "Art", but now anyone gets one. For what reason or excuse?
Also tattoos was seen as disrespectful, low class person or low income people.
Sure there was tradition or culture marking. Prison?
Or "face painting" when someone went to war or a "ritual celebration ". - removal

But now everyone gets one, but not those people in Monaco?
Why don't those ladies or men get one?

 
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that's interesting anyway. Recently I found this lesbian dating site. No weird filtering or being ignored—it’s just us! The site is beautifully designed and actually fun to use. I’ve had some deep, meaningful conversations and a few flirty ones too. The events and live chats are a cool bonus. It’s a refreshing change from mainstream dating sites.
 
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I noitice this has not turned into how to pick up women thread.
It is a beautiful thread about how to meet women.
The difference, IMHO, is a pick up thread is about how to seduce a woman with lies and psychology then dump her when the fun is over leaving her distraught. Not cool.
 
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I noitice this has not turned into how to pick up women thread.
It is a beautiful thread about how to meet women.
The difference, IMHO, is a pick up thread is about how to seduce a woman with lies and psychology then dump her when the fun is over leaving her distraught. Not cool.

Be sensitive to women.

Take heed of 261252 as he already knows how to approach women whether he knows it or not.
 

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In my experiences, if she is not feeling it that she will make obvious. If she is feeling it and makes it obvious than that is a green light and you got lucky.

The inbetween is the hard one, she is friendly but not being obvious in her interest that may be because she is not interested but she could be interested but reserved, not really sure or sure about your interest
Approaching someone who hasn’t given any signals of interest can be tricky, but not everyone is naturally expressive or confident in showing interest. That doesn’t mean they wouldn’t welcome a conversation—it just means they might not know how to initiate or encourage one.


However, if you sense disinterest or discomfort, it’s crucial to respect that and gracefully move on.

Only a PUA has the goal to convince someone to like them when you should be looking for someone who naturally connects with you.

Why would you want to talk to someone who is not interested ?


Sometimes you have to give them a chance
 

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Take honest evaluation of your looks and deal with it.

As I am a 5 to 7 in appearance , depending on taste , so I am not surprised when a 5 to 7 shows interest as that is what both sexes do. Brad Pitt will get interest from the 8 to 10 women , not me

But, there have been times when a 8 or 9 or even 10 has shown interest by a quick look and smile, for example. Always a WTF moment. Women who are 10 get seldom approached

I am not stating I always approach, I am just reporting

Women seldom approach strangers but they will give signals

I have trained myself to look for signals that most guys are bad at spotting. It is an interesting art and I believe I have become good at it
 
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Take honest evaluation of your looks and deal with it.

As I am a 5 to 7 in appearance , depending on taste , so I am not surprised when a 5 to 7 shows interest as that is what both sexes do. Brad Pitt will get interest from the 8 to 10 women , not me

But, there have been times when a 8 or 9 or even 10 has shown interest by a quick look and smile, for example. Always a WTF moment. Women who are 10 get seldom approached

I am not stating I always approach, I am just reporting

Women seldom approach strangers but they will give signals

I have trained myself to look for signals that most guys are bad at spotting. It is an interesting art and I believe I have become good at it
What are the specific signals that you look for to see if the woman is interested in you?
 

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What are the specific signals that you look for to see if the woman is interested in you?
There are lots of vids you can watch on female body language .

Pick up a womans magazine that has how to signal males etc on front cover and read what woman read

I suspect I just have a sensitivity for knowing when she is interested which is a great instinct to have as most men are very bad at it

Think of women having ESP. Even though they do not, it is like they do.

First I will send a signal.

If I notice a woman I look her way. Not a lustful stare just a quick look of appreciation. Unless she is occupied she will know you looked.

If she is interested she will send signals. She will smile for no reason other than she wants you to notice. She will touch her hair or her body. Her body will become erect and open. She will find an excuse to be physically close and often be silent as a sign she wants to talk to you. Eye contact. They touch you esp on the shoulder

If you do not send a signal same body language occurs.

Sometimes she tells her GF she likes you and the GF lets you know, they enjoy doing that.

Her smile is the best and most obvious signal

Sometimes she is too reserved so no signals are given unless you blind approach then even in conversation she gives no signals.
A nice non sexual compliment may open her up.

Nothing I have said is fool proof unless she goes over the top with the signaling. I do not go after women unless they give signals.

I have become friends with attractive women, even went on dates, because they know I know they are not interested and it all went unsaid

Signaling is neccessary. You cannot just go up to someone and say 'Hi I am interested'. Well, you could but you are opening yourself for rejection

I hope that helps. We can keep this discussion open and I will add to it as I think about it. By thinking about something I can teach myself
 
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