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bluecolt

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Bingo.

I've done a LOT of shitty / tough jobs in my life. I can remember very well being in High School working after school and weekends at a large department store. That was nonstop work and could be downright disgusting. Part of my gig was to clean the public washrooms in the evenings. There were times when I would use a shovel because some woman dropped a log on the floor, or threw her rag on the floor. (Women are pigs in the washrooms compared to men, I can assure you.) All that for $4.00 an hour and never ONCE did anyone tip me because I was making minimum wage. When I was in University, I worked in construction and spent the summers boiling my brains out on job sites doing incredibly dangerous work (iron working). If I wasn't risking my life in the field, I was welding in the shop or painting steel with an airless sprayer out back without any kind of protective equipment at all. (Well, I did have a welding helmet, otherwise you'll catch the flash and that's never good.) 7 bucks an hour. And no-one tipped me because I was making a low wage.

So maybe the answer is to outlaw tipping in restaurants and let restaurants pay their employees a fair wage. Sure, it would cost more, but it would make a lot of sense.
I have also performed lavatory maintenance in the long ago past. To this end, I must ask the one question that has festered in my mind for many moons. Why do only women drop unflushable logs into the toilet. Those horrible shits that require the cleaner to go outdoors to find a stick to break it up into flushable pieces. Why, oh, why?
 

superstar_88

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Bingo.

I've done a LOT of shitty / tough jobs in my life. I can remember very well being in High School working after school and weekends at a large department store. That was nonstop work and could be downright disgusting. Part of my gig was to clean the public washrooms in the evenings. There were times when I would use a shovel because some woman dropped a log on the floor, or threw her rag on the floor. (Women are pigs in the washrooms compared to men, I can assure you.) All that for $4.00 an hour and never ONCE did anyone tip me because I was making minimum wage. When I was in University, I worked in construction and spent the summers boiling my brains out on job sites doing incredibly dangerous work (iron working). If I wasn't risking my life in the field, I was welding in the shop or painting steel with an airless sprayer out back without any kind of protective equipment at all. (Well, I did have a welding helmet, otherwise you'll catch the flash and that's never good.) 7 bucks an hour. And no-one tipped me because I was making a low wage.

So maybe the answer is to outlaw tipping in restaurants and let restaurants pay their employees a fair wage. Sure, it would cost more, but it would make a lot of sense.
Cost more but save money on tips so all evens out. And if service is bad it would reflect on the restaurant and repeat customers.
 

superstar_88

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I have also performed lavatory maintenance in the long ago past. To this end, I must ask the one question that has festered in my mind for many moons. Why do only women drop unflushable logs into the toilet. Those horrible shits that require the cleaner to go outdoors to find a stick to break it up into flushable pieces. Why, oh, why?
cause they are either idiots or inconsiderate bitches
 

FullTilt168

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Most servers have to "tip out" 3-5% to the "back of house" staff like dishwashers, cooks etc. So if you don't tip on sat $100, the server will have to reach into their own pocket to give the back of house $5 or so.

I really dislike the premise of tipping as it really just an added service charge on top of the price of the food and drink. But, as it is our custom, the servers do rely on this to make maybe a living wage. I've dated servers and I know how they feel and how hard they work. So even if I get shit service, I'll still tip 5% so the server is not out of pocket. I tip 15% as a standard and 20% for really goos service. If I can afford to eat out, then I can afford the tip. Even if I disagree with the premise.


I worked many years as a server and bartender and I am in hospitality management now and yes I can confirm that 99% of the establishments will require a mandatory TIP-OUT of 4% to 7.5% base on sales. So if a customer decides on a bill totaling $100 that he or she wont tip a penny the server will be on the hook for at least $4.

I totally agree that tipping is a privileged and not a right and many service industry people do feel "entitled' however I can say that many do also bust their rears and do their jobs with heart and passion.
 

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I've worked as a waiter too in the early 90s when minimum wage was $6.00, but as a restaurant worker I got like $5.00/hr.

Worker as a server is not hard. And I was doing it when I was around 20 at the time. And the tips you get when added to the min wage will blow away any other low end job. All the people working fast food, at the mall, etc.... are getting a flat rate crappy hourly wage. Wait staff get an hourly wage close to it, but tips should literally triple your hourly.

Unless someone works in a crappy restaurant with few customers, anyone working at a normal eatery or even better, a high end place should be getting at least $100 tips per shift. And a shift is never even 8 hrs like most normal jobs. Come in for 6 hrs...... 6 x $5/hr = $30. Plus $100 minimum per shift = $130 for 6 hrs work..... $20/hr.

That table for 10 that gives $20 is an anomoly. How about that easy table for 2 that gives $20? That happens too.

It's not like someone's entire shift is waiting on one table for the entire night. Someone may attend to 50-100 people in a shift, where the tables turnover twice. Even if each person just gave a $1 tip, it still equates to a decent hourly wage when you do the math. It won't make you a millionaire, but it's far better than any standard flat rate low end hourly job.

Another thing too..... it was better back in the day because more people did cash, while now 99% of people do credit/debit, but let's face it. Any cash tip..... nobody is claiming that for income tax. I didn't, and I doubt anyone else I worked with did either. Back then, there was a tip bucket at each station and the servers working each station divvyed it up at the end of their shift. Right into their pocket. Nobody is tracking that for T4 purposes.

Another greedy thing too is that tipping has gone up.... it used to be 10% growing up. Then 15%. Now people seemed pressured to do 20%. At one restaurant (I forget which but it was recent), the credit card gadget had pre-determined tipping %'s. It was 20%, 22% and I think 25 or 27%. Then press F4 to enter your own.
Are we in the 90's? You cant compare info from 20-25 years ago. You are all on an ESCORT review board and won't tip a server 15%?
 

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Cost more but save money on tips so all evens out. And if service is bad it would reflect on the restaurant and repeat customers.
That's true but it's more indirect. Today there's an immediate link between service quality and the server's income. The long term reputation of the restaurant is much less directly linked to the server's income. You at least need a manager to detect the service quality and then take an effective action to reward or punish.

So service quality will likely decline, and in fact that's what your see in the UK. Fancy and prestigious restaurants have unbelievably good service, but they're not paying minimum wage either. Your neighborhood pub or eatery generally has awful service
 

daboy

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Are we in the 90's? You cant compare info from 20-25 years ago. You are all on an ESCORT review board and won't tip a server 15%?
Sure you can, everything is relative,
The point is , 15 per hr should be acceptable and tipping should end except for exceptional service.
This is the Australian playbook and its friggen expensive to live in Australia as is Toronto
Again, all relative
The fact we are on a review board has no baring on the topic ,this topic could just as easily be on
The. Etobicoke moms blog

Again to clarify, bartenders are in a separate catagory. Food servers are in the general population
And IMHO . A cashier in a busy food store works as hard as a server and we don't tip them

Db
 

hoorawr

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What's smug about it? Do you want to work for $9 an hour? I've actually been there so I'm not sure what you're getting at I don't think you realize how chaotic and hard it is to be a server. Imagine serving a table of 10 and they drop you $20? TRASH.
Juno if you think being a server is a difficult job it's really no surprise to me you ended up selling your body for $

Try a job with real stress like a doctor, lawyer, dentist, etc. Do you tip them?
 

ets2361

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Juno if you think being a server is a difficult job it's really no surprise to me you ended up selling your body for $

Try a job with real stress like a doctor, lawyer, dentist, etc. Do you tip them?
Wow talk about a disrespectable post. Chill out man. And comparing tipping to a server or service provider making minimum wage to a professional earning a six figure salary really makes no sense. I agree the amount you tip should reflect the quality of service but remember that they have to be able to survive on their earnings just like the rest of us.
 

Occasionally

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Are we in the 90's? You cant compare info from 20-25 years ago. You are all on an ESCORT review board and won't tip a server 15%?
Where did I ever say I don't. Maybe you should read peoples posts and don't assume.

Comparing to 20-25 years ago is completely fair. Another thing too.... back then tipping expectations weren't 15-20%. It was more like 10%.

And since the early 90s (right around when I was a waiter), they enacted GST. So what a lot of people due for sake of ease calculation tip is just to give it based on the final price after tax. The more tax added (GST at the time was I think 7%), the more tip someone got from pure luck.

That's the difference between you and me who have both been servers. You expect mandatory 15%+ tipping, while I think tipping is a absurd expectation.

I think it has to do with age. I'm probably 20 years older than you. Expectations from my generation were more about hard work and not complaining. Do a good job and get rewarded. Don't expect automatic payouts.
 

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Sure you can, everything is relative,
The point is , 15 per hr should be acceptable and tipping should end except for exceptional service.
This is the Australian playbook and its friggen expensive to live in Australia as is Toronto
Again, all relative
The fact we are on a review board has no baring on the topic ,this topic could just as easily be on
The. Etobicoke moms blog

Again to clarify, bartenders are in a separate catagory. Food servers are in the general population
And IMHO . A cashier in a busy food store works as hard as a server and we don't tip them

Db
Exactly.

Being a server is monkey work. You take orders, bring them food, which cooks make. Bring drinks which a bartender makes, you pour water, clear a table and handle the bill. Big fucking deal. I've been a waiter myself when I was about 20. You make way more money than what a whining waiter claims. And way more than any fast food worker or guy at the mall trying to sell you jeans and sweaters. Whereas someone flipping burgers has a valid claim making $11 at Burger King won't get them far. A waiter making $9/hr and getting tips will far exceed $9/hr. As long as you work at a half decent eatery, you should avg at least $20/hr. It's not hard getting about $10/hr tip. In fact, the avg 4 person table with an $80 bill at Jack Astors will probably give $10 alone. Now multiply that by all the tables handled that night and every server should get at least $100 tip per night. Ok, there's some slow nights with cheapskates or bad weather. But then there's good nights and holidays where's it's jam packed and every table is tipping big time because it's a happy occasion.

I did, and that was in the early 90s.

Food costs more now, tips are expected at 15% minimum. So to not be able to clear $100 tip per night is slim.
 

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It's the other way around. Service is shitty because there's no tipping.
looks like you don't even understand what ? signifies,...

Google it,...then get back to me.
 

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Juno if you think being a server is a difficult job it's really no surprise to me you ended up selling your body for $

Try a job with real stress like a doctor, lawyer, dentist, etc. Do you tip them?
Post reported to moderator: insulting other members.
 

Dod

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because I like being treated well and if and when I come back to the same restaurant I want to be served better than people who don't tip well
I get what you are saying but unfortunately the service will be the same as people who don't tip. There's no sign on your forehead that saids I tip well... Give me better service.
 

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I will note that Canadians are notoriously parsimonious.

In other words, ya'll cheap as fuck.
 
I am quite amazed at people who tip in general
Yes every once in a while I see someone give great service etc
But why would you actually leave money every other time?
Tipping is the most idiotic idea ever and mostly an American thing. In some parts of the world, it is an insult. Just pay wages not having to rely on the silly tipping crap. Only low paid folks get tips, it is an insult like giving to charity since the employer won't pay them fairly. Forget tipping and build in proper wages based on supply demand and include it in the price. That is far more fair than silly tipping.

Yes I usually tip 20% only because I feel its an obligation not because I like it. I also go to fast food places a lot so don't have to do silly tipping game
 
Another way tipping will be eliminated is robotics. In Asia, in some places, even the food is delivered by robots. I have some pictures of them on a report I did awhile ago. I forgot to look at the airport when I arrived via Air Canada. I recall last year this huge eating area that eliminating ordering with humans and very efficient central kitchen pod. Each table has a popup to order from, cell phone power connections etc.

In all industries as wages grow there is becoming more and more automated. Robots don't get raises, don't get sick time or the new idea of paid family lead. Factories are now highly automated. Asia is far ahead of the U.S. in making manufacturing to food service more efficent replacing humans with robots.

Workers have to learn today's skills. There is a huge unmet labor demand some of the highest number of available jobs in the U.S. in history, but not enough qualified applicants to fill them. That is why we need so many workers from Asia who take education more seriously and have the skills we so badly lack in the U.S. It may not be as bad in Canada since you have more sensible immigration policy more based on work skills etc vs family ties in the U.S.
 

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because I like being treated well and if and when I come back to the same restaurant I want to be served better than people who don't tip well
lol that is a losing battle because no matter what you do tip, someone else is tipping better
Society in general promotes 20%+
 

TeeJay

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Because when you don't tip, it's like taking money out of there pocket. They make less based on the premise they are going to get 15% tip on top of there salary. Unless the service is horrible, stop so cheap and do the right thing.
*shrugs*
Call me selfish but isn't taking money out of someone else's pocket the first rule of capitalism?

When I sell my car I want the best price
When I sell my house I want the best price
When I buy groceries I want the best price
etc

Heck even in some job types you are in direct competition with someone else as to who can fleece the general public for the most money
 

TeeJay

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What's smug about it? Do you want to work for $9 an hour? I've actually been there so I'm not sure what you're getting at I don't think you realize how chaotic and hard it is to be a server. Imagine serving a table of 10 and they drop you $20? TRASH.
But then the obvious answer is get a better job
Lowest I ever made in my life was $12 / hr (and this was a long time ago, min wage probably was 9 to 10 back then I would guess)
Why work at worst job then complain about low pay?
 
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