Sugar Dating Experience

[Aprilmaeuk]

I found that confusion as well as honesty or lack thereof are evenly and generously spread between both categories.
Just as childhood traumas and history of sex abuse are. As one of my most mature SBs said: everybody had an uncle.

How is tuition and debt a ‘silly thing’?? Better than wasting it on coke and booze?! God forbid someone tries to better their life . Everyone had an uncle?!! No… just … no… lol

 

[Aprilmaeuk]

Do you think that those that host at their place use video surveillance for their security perhaps?

don’t flatter yourself. We don’t give a fuck who you’re with, if you’re married etc. i actually know more escorts who have cams in their house, and do incalls ))) be careful

 

[dadbodyguy]

No, a real SB who is looking for longevity will not ask for money on the first date, that is the difference between FS and SB. It takes days maybe weeks to create a relationship and trust, then you meet. You may not be intimate on the first date, its a slower process and completely different to FS. A clever SB wouldn’t ask for anything for just a dinner date, although me and many others do ask for a PPM if you expect intimacy because we have wasted our time many times with meet ups to see if we ‘click’ and get nothing from it. May as well be on Tinder and be used for free. Seeking isnt a normal dating site, so don’t be surprised when the financial side of the arrangement gets brought up lol.

what's is FS

 

[RobI]

what is FS

FS = Full Service (typically sex and maybe a blow job included). If you're talking to ladies on these sites, don't use "hooker talk" with them unless they stat it first, they probably know it, but it also rises a red flag on you, as in, "Hey, this guy must fuck hookers - I'm charging him double!"

 

[dadbodyguy]

FS = Full Service (typically sex and maybe a blow job included). If you're talking to ladies on these sites, don't use "hooker talk" with them unless they stat it first, they probably know it, but it also rises a red flag on you, as in, "Hey, this guy must fuck hookers - I'm charging him double!"

Thank you

 

[Tony2000]

Question about Sugar Daddy Meet site

I have looked at the site and the only geographic option seems to be "Ontario". I don't live in Toronto and would like to be able to be more specific to my area.
Does anyone know if there is an advanced search??

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Question about Sugar Daddy Meet site

I have looked at the site and the only geographic option seems to be "Ontario". I don't live in Toronto and would like to be able to be more specific to my area.
Does anyone know if there is an advanced search??

I always thought that site was scam

 

[Massivo]

I always thought that site was scam

It is. I have been on it for about 3 months and spent around $150 on credits. As I recall, I bought 100 credits twice.

There were one or two people I met off the site...I can't remember exactly...Definitely one person who turned out to be an SP. Cute but we didn't vibe.

After that I sent out a bunch of messages but very rarely did anyone respond. In my view, the site is filled with a bunch of fake profiles and bots.

Now that I haven't been actively messaging anyone, I keep getting messages from women. They're just designed to make you use up your credits.

Seeking is a much better site but it's fairly expensive. Roughly $150/month.

My two cents...

 

[400DC]

Seeking is a much better site but it's fairly expensive. Roughly $150/month.

My two cents...

If seeking sends out email for discount . Hold on to it . A 25% off link from 6 months ago works . Still expensive though . I did make use of a 33 % off discount via email. 15% off pop up is common

 

[Runkle]

Haven’t seen those pop-ups in a minute. Although, I think I did get an email about a subscription increase that is coming soon.

 

[RobI]

Question about Sugar Daddy Meet site

I have looked at the site and the only geographic option seems to be "Ontario". I don't live in Toronto and would like to be able to be more specific to my area.
Does anyone know if there is an advanced search??

You need the paid account to search at the City level. Mind you, if you're in Toronto/GTA, most of the girls are going to be easy to find, with a few Ottawa, Hamilton and Niagara-region girls mixed in. Only makes to send to get a paid account if there's some girls you actually want to message. What area are you looking in? I've met some girls in the Niagara area and out near Kitchener.

 

[RobI]

It is. I have been on it for about 3 months and spent around $150 on credits. As I recall, I bought 100 credits twice.

There were one or two people I met off the site...I can't remember exactly...Definitely one person who turned out to be an SP. Cute but we didn't vibe.

...

There are a lot of SP on these sites for sure, I've seen a few Seduction girls on SDM/Seeking.

 

[Hipjdog]

Yeah, I've seen a few SP's that a saw back in the day appear on Seeking years later.

 

[Ravana]

What's the best advice around an opening line on SA or SB? Do you just lay it all out on the table up front that you're looking for a connection/mutually beneficial arrangement? Or do you need to be more subtle and build to it?

 

[Hipjdog]

What's the best advice around an opening line on SA or SB? Do you just lay it all out on the table up front that you're looking for a connection/mutually beneficial arrangement? Or do you need to be more subtle and build to it?

In my personal experience, I usually start a conversation in the same way I might on Bumble or Hinge. Notice something from her profile and ask her about it.
ex: "Hi, Sara! I'm Tom. I see you like tennis...have you been able to play much this summer?"

After a few exchanges that way I usually ask what her experience with this site is and what she's looking for. If you have a good rapport you
can then move to telegram or just regular texting and set up a date.

 

[Ravana]

In my personal experience, I usually start a conversation in the same way I might on Bumble or Hinge. Notice something from her profile and ask her about it.
ex: "Hi, Sara! I'm Tom. I see you like tennis...have you been able to play much this summer?"

After a few exchanges that way I usually ask what her experience with this site is and what she's looking for. If you have a good rapport you
can then move to telegram or just regular texting and set up a date.

I'm playing around with SB a bit. Struggling to get any responses though. I've heard that this game takes a lot of time and effort-- is this mostly to do with the fact it takes a lot of work to weed out the fake profiles & flakes?

On a related but funny note. On SB there is this "Verification Process" where you upload video of yourself saying "I'll be your secret". These videos are then available for others to watch. I'm not sure many of the girls know this though as I've clicked on a few of them and invariably the video will be them, sitting on their couch, hair in a bun, no make up and often looking MUCH less attractive than their photos would suggest. I've weeded out a good many this way.

 

[GeeBee]

You need the paid account to search at the City level. Mind you, if you're in Toronto/GTA, most of the girls are going to be easy to find, with a few Ottawa, Hamilton and Niagara-region girls mixed in. Only makes to send to get a paid account if there's some girls you actually want to message. What area are you looking in? I've met some girls in the Niagara area and out near Kitchener.

If you’re in or near a university town, and looking for someone in the early 20’s age bracket, you may want to hold off on paying for the Seeking membership until school starts again. Girls who live elsewhere in the summer may reactivate a profile or create a new one once they get back and want a better source of income during the school year than a shitty server job. Keep an eye out and get most of September for your monthly $$

 

[Hipjdog]

It is something you can waste an enormous amount of time on, yes. I just go through the girls and favour the ones I like
and then message them. A bunch of them won't write back. Others will write back but the way they are responding feels
hallow and I end it there. You will find those gems, though, who write you back and are excited to have a real conversation
and actually meet soon. Those are the girls you want to focus on. They are out there.