When you tip your provider...?

[OttFunseeker]

When you tip your provider, do you point it out to them? Like, "There's a little extra there for you."

Or do you say nothing and hope they notice?

Or hand it to them separately after the fact?

Just curious how others go about it.

 

[Mr Deeds]

If you've had a really good time, just leave a little extra on the table and say thank you dont make a big deal about it

 

[yomero5]

I don't tip.

 

[black booty lover]

I just mix it in with the rest of the cash. I don't tip that often though because I see the same SP every time. I just buy her a gift card like two or three times a year for about $100.00 bucks.

 

[alexiadx]

I've been tipped before and after.

Tipping and gifts are kind and thoughtful gestures; if I had to pick I'd say before, with a smile and or a "thank you for seeing me" goes along way.

My time is valuable and I definitely feel wooed by clients who follow me on social media or take the time out to throughly read my website and gift me with small tokens of appreciation from an obscure tweet, or my favourite bottle of singe malt.

To me It say's I know this is transactional but I'd like you to feel special and know that I thought of you as a whole person and not just about the incredible time we are about to have.

But Im a sucker for thoughtfulness and have yet to be jaded of tips and gifts. Admittedly I still think fondly about a client that gave me a tea towel of scientific equations as much as the client who tipped me double my rate for seeing him last minute.

 

[OnTheWayOut]

I will discreetly put a tip somewhere AFTER the session. I used to include it at the beginning for repeats but found a few times the SP did not earn the tip already given. Now I wait to see if she earns a tip before giving one.

I do however rarely arrive empty handed, so that small gift at the beginning could be considered a tip I guess. I don't really look at it that way.

 

[doggystyle99]

When you tip your provider, do you point it out to them? Like, "There's a little extra there for you."

Or do you say nothing and hope they notice?

Or hand it to them separately after the fact?

Just curious how others go about it.

I never leave a monetary tip for an SP.
I usually bring chocolates for her to enjoy or a bottle of wine for both of us to sip on but always check what they prefer before hand.

 

[bebe]

Never anymore, never again!!

99% of the time you are just tossing your hard earned dollars away and getting ZERO in return.

 

[shack]

I think tipping prior is just dumb.

Who tips their waiter before a meal to make sure they get prompt service?

 

[Twister]

I've tipped ladies at massage parlor for making an effort

 

[VStampede]

If I need to pay first, I will rarely tip unless I feel we had a good connection and a great time together, then I'll leave it afterwards. If I pay at the end, I will include it with the rest, sometimes I'll mention it, sometimes I won't. Otherwise I might simply bring a little something like a bottle of sparkling wine to share before our sessions or some sexy lingerie for her to change into.

 

[John Henry]

I DON'T TIP . If the provider wants more money than add it to her fee . Then I will decide to see her or not . I don't tip my doctor , dentist , store clerk or anyone else for that matter . Showing your appreciation , well you decided to see her and you did pay her what she asked for .

Heaven forbid if you're there 10 or 15 mins longer than the time allotted . Hurry up and get out . My next client will be here soon .

Tip .... Firecracker Red in the 4th race . Bet to win . How's that for a tip .

 

[Chubzy Maximus]

Sometimes I tip, sometimes I don’t. If it’s average or below service I don’t. If it’s spectacular, sure. A lot of times if I go for an incall and I get my shit done before times up, I’ll bounce. They may be getting paid an hour for 45 min worth of work, lol

 

[wazup]

I like to tip near the end of the service, followed immediately by the entire shaft.

 

[luvyeah]

She always asks why I only give her the tip, then I remind her I'm all the way in.

 

[whiteshaft]

She always asks why I only give her the tip, then I remind her I'm all the way in.

LMFAO! Hilarious....but was her pussy too loose?

 

[Jasmina]

Regulars who like to tip are more prone to including tip with donation if they know the lady is consistent, even those who don't tip often will generally include it in donation and not say anything, some may go way of gift card in a card separate from donation which is always super kind and thoughtful, and we ladies love to read the little personal messages you write for us. One offs will tip at end of session if they feel it was earned/warranted.

Do not consider a bottle of wine to be shared in session a tip. Yes an added expense but that is for mutual benefit not a gratuity. That being said, I have had clients bring me a bottle of wine to be enjoyed on my own time later and I always loved the thoughtfulness of that, and that I considered a "gift".

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Some tip with the donation. My rate is $480 for 2 hrs and quite often I find $500 in the envelope. To me I think they must think that should be the rate so they put it in there.

Some tip after. This is usually first time clients who are just floored by the experience. This is the emotional purchase tip in my opinion. Which I love because it really lets you know you have done a great job.

Gifts are given at the beginning as well.

Never anymore, never again!!

99% of the time you are just tossing your hard earned dollars away and getting ZERO in return.

So you tip expecting to get something? You think tipping means what? What extra do you think you should be getting?

 

[black booty lover]

Guys, the question wasn't "do you tip". It was "when you tip do you do you it before or after"?


There's a million other threads for asking if you tip that you can reply to.

 

[shack]

Guys, the question wasn't "do you tip". It was "when you tip do you do you it before or after"?

LOL. Reading comprehension has never been a strong suit of many TERB members.