Have you guys ever had drama from a SB ?
All SB says they are discreet but I have fear that they let secret out to the wife or SO.
Eventually when you see them more often they will know who you are.
I think I had the same fear with escorts but I realize now it’s their best interest to keep the encounter discrete
But is it the same for SBs?
Yes, I've had some drama but mostly it's when things are ending (and she's not happy she's being replaced), or it's during the first meeting, where it becomes clear they're not there for the right reasons.
Also, avoid duos on the first meet, usually not as fun as it sounds, and you have two people to watch around your stuff lol
Two things to keep in mind to prevent problems down the road are: don't piss them off unnessassarily (ie. not paying them the agreed amount or something) and don't give them more information about you than you need to.
They don't need to know you're married, what your exact job is, how much you make, what your licence plate number is or where you live (especially if you're married). It's not just about them, but keep in mind that they might also have some lowlife friends who, at some point, might decide to rob your place.
Basically, don't make yourself a target or give them a reason to kill the golden goose (that's you btw)