You are correct and what I meant to say is that I am trying to get my nephew to consider other options ( IE a trade) not that I AM SO POMPOUS AND PRETENTIOUS that only I can make his decisionYour approach is all wrong
If you "talk him into something" there is a possibility he may regret it latter and resent the hell out of you
Encourage him to throughly investigate and research both routes "Trades" & "University" before making any life long decisions
Both have advantages and disadvantages
What if he is not the career dog-fucker you are and deep down wants to get a whole lot more out of a career than putting in his 20-25 years and out?
As a trades person he will generally doing what is asked of him i.e weld this, wire that, stop that leak, put that drain in
If he goes to university he may (nothing is guaranteed) get to make decisions like " We need to put a drain here"
DO NOT sell this kid short and decide for him.
It really must be a decision he is happy with and one he makes himself.
Shame on you for trying to talk him into what is good enough for you
Only he can make this decision
I need to be more careful with my words