“I’m an Incel, Ask Me Anything.”
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Exactly. Self awareness is key here.
Best approach is just record yourself talking from all angles. Walk around. Talk about stuff you would talk to a woman about. If you are incel talk about your opinions of women. Then clear your mind and put yourself in the shoes of women you are attracted to. How would you feel about spending time with yourself as the opposite sex, especially concerning your attitude your opinions etc., and then consider your looks. i.e Imagine if you were a woman stuck dating a male version of yourself. If you can do this objectively with the least amount of your personal bias and ego a lot of truth will be revealed to you. If you wouldn’t date you if you were a female you are normally attracted to what makes you think other women would?
Haha you have the secret to life right there! Just sit down and enjoy the bidet friends! No bombs are falling, we retain most of our body parts now unlike ours fore-bearers, we have vaccines, can fly through the air like Superman & can even give you a pill for a boner!! Stop gripping you can’t get a bitchy IG model to give a free DT for Christ’s sake.
I’ll just say it, incels are a bunch of bratty spoiled white boys. They’re angry they weren’t born with chiselled jaws and never went to Ivy League schools where they could get more treats. They have no ambition which is why immigrants are lapping them over and over. Pull your big boy pants on and go get a life because it’s out there!
Also, a solid wheel of cheese & deer antler spoons you say?! Can I come over because that’s sounds awesome sauce!!
Actually, you got it. As SPs we want to and get excited by treating you like a king. You definitely can have that experience, I know many women in civie relationships support their guys now too seeing SWs which is btw another benefit of feminism. Guys don’t try and put us back in the dark ages because, no, it wasn’t better back then.
Honestly, all of humankind has a massive challenge on deck solving environmental problems and those coming soon due to technology we’re not ready to manage. Heads out of pants at least half the day!
Hello,
I hope Terb is treating you well so far! I just wanted to highlight that perhaps a change in perspective can begin at your choice of words which colour your mindset. It can be frustrating to perceive a lack of control, to feel inferior, lower, lesser, or be at a loss - but all of this is perception and all of it is relative. There was a very good post above about the actual attributes in a person (and I stress the word person, not necessarily a man) that are attractive to most others are confidence, humour, and genuinely giving a crap about how well you are sexually able to serve. It can be quite liberating once you stop taking things at a personal level.. and understand where your strengths are and what your unique value is! Once you understand that, others will begin to as well. If self-deprication, misery, defensiveness, and blame are your go-to familiar state, that will only attract the same in others. Start with Tony Robbins youtube videos! Move onto Marisa Peer.
Generally speaking, I do feel that women can be quite harsh on men who are trying hard to be gentlemen, but I do not blame any party as it's not their job to know how to react in a politically correct way to protect others' mental healths. Say, when a man approaches to court me or try to ask me for my number on the street - I often smile, say thank you, you have brightened my day, as a nod of encouragement to their attempt at gentlemanly ways, even in rejection. However, the men who do this often CAN do it because of practice and being okay with being rejected at the slight possible chance of being accepted. Evolutionarily speaking, that's how we're wired.
Honestly, these very strong words are only reminiscent of how I think of our heavy tax structure, but alas living in Canada is pretty damn good... and I just try to find ways to work around the system and the game rather than be an anarchist. #capitalisttuntilidie
And this is coming from a girl who wants a million dollars for marriage. Lmao. I'm sure you'll choose a fat short 5 feet guy who still lives in his mom's basement with a great personality over a guy who is a millionaire with brad Pitt looks but is a player ...lmao:rofl::crazy::clap2:
Short answer - yes, you should blame yourself. It's no one else's fault.
Sure you can train harder and probably do better but it's true, you may still not make the NHL. Then you need to ACCEPT THE REALITY OF WHAT YOU ARE. What you are is no one else's fault.
The good news for you is getting laid is way, way easier than getting a multi-million NHL contract.
Thats hilarious everytime i see florenceyi posts or comments ur right there with the 1 million marriage diss lmaoAnd this is coming from a girl who wants a million dollars for marriage. Lmao. I'm sure you'll choose a fat short 5 feet guy who still lives in his mom's basement with a great personality over a guy who is a millionaire with brad Pitt looks but is a player ...lmao:rofl::crazy::clap2:
https://www.thestar.com/news/gta/20...with-a-scarf-jailhouse-witness-testifies.html
Is he an incel? Not every guy who is declined by a woman kills her.
Is he an incel? Not every guy who is declined by a woman kills her.
I don't know if he is or not but I have a question.
Why do some men think they are owed sex? Men hate that some women think they are only here to provide money but those men thinking that women owe them sex. It is our duty to have sex with them when they want. I don't get that.
I don't think a man owes me anything. I don't think a person owes me anything. So why so some men think they are owed and entitled to sex?
many men grew up and experienced peer pressure to have sex with girls. they were look down on if they are not having sex with girls
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I don't feel it's all that different than the entitled millennials running around these days. Everyone thinks they are entitled to whatever they want. Blame their parents! :behindsofa:
So what does that have to do with men feeling we women pee them sex? That doesn't explain anything.
Why, because I am a woman, is it my RESPONSIBILITY to have sex with you. Because that is why incels believe.
Being an incel isn’t really about sex. It’s about entitlement. These are simply people who think they’re entitled to whatever they want, they just happen to want sex. I’d wager when they were kids, they were probably the types to throw massive tantrums if their parents said they couldn’t have candy or a cereal they wanted or whatever, and probably learned that if they did that, they’d get what they wanted because their parents would give in just to shut them up. Then they’re confused later in life when the same tactics don’t work with women and they don’t know what else to do because throwing a tantrum was their go-to move and it no longer works.
This is why they try the fake “nice guy” schtick, because they think if they’re nice to a woman she’ll have sex with them, and this is why they get so upset when it doesn’t work. They feel like they’ve shifted tactics, they’ve put in an effort, and it’s not being rewarded and that’s not fair, dammit! It’s a very immature, even infantile mindset. They don’t understand that their behavior is very transparent and off-putting because women know they’re not genuinely nice people, they’re just doing it to get their “reward”. It’s like bribing your kid to clean his room. Sure he does it, but he’s not doing it because he’s a responsible person and understands the importance of having a tidy living space, he’s doing it because he wants a new video game.
Because they are losers. Simple as that. Karma will fuck them and tear them from the inside each time they assume someone else is inferior or owes them something.
They are perfect example of failure
Agree about genetics.
Agree about ethnicity.
ABSOLUTELY DISAGREE ABOUT WOMEN CHOOSING US.
THAT HAS NEVER BEEN THE CASE AND IT WILL NEVER BE.
THERE IS A REASON WHY MEN ARE NATURAL PROVIDERS AND PROTECTORS.
WE TAKE THE LEAD. WE ARE IN CHARGE OF OUR CHOICES.
WE CHOOSE OUR LIVES AND WE CHOOSE OUR WOMEN. NOT THEY.
Agree about ethnicity.
ABSOLUTELY DISAGREE ABOUT WOMEN CHOOSING US.
THAT HAS NEVER BEEN THE CASE AND IT WILL NEVER BE.
THERE IS A REASON WHY MEN ARE NATURAL PROVIDERS AND PROTECTORS.
WE TAKE THE LEAD. WE ARE IN CHARGE OF OUR CHOICES.
WE CHOOSE OUR LIVES AND WE CHOOSE OUR WOMEN. NOT THEY.
This is a very outdated mentality. It used to be that men chose women by being successful as a provider and protector. Women would pursue such men vigorously. Today women no longer require a man for protection nor to provide for them. They get their own education, they work in any field they want to earn an income, and the State provides most protections required.
Women choose most of the time. Men will settle much easier for any woman willing to give him the time of day.
But both need each other for a full healthy ideal family.
